Zhichang (32), Lugano, escort girl

Ryszard

Hmmm, I have mixed feelings on setting the parameters by saying something upfront. That's because I find guys who do that a little too jarring for my personality and there's a job interview, sterile quality to it. It signifies impatience to me and a lot of people it will be "too much" for. That said, I know plenty of girls who would probably LOVE to hear this upfront although I don't believe that it will really make things easier. I DO think it should be implied by the things you discuss etc. People will disagree with me and I suppose it can be done in quite a fun and elegant way. I don't think it would alleviate heartbreak as much as you think though. What I'm trying to say is you are trying to come up with a solution (3 strikes, announcing intentions upfront) that will solve your problem. It's both more simple and harder than that. If you state intentions upfront but still do not operate with standards, you are going to have the same problems. It's just a bandaid, see? The harder but easier part is knowing your standards and just operating with them in every relationship. They are true to you and who you are. That's why people without firm standards are not as compelling but it conveys that you are not entirely comfortable or know who you are. You adjust to get what you want. It's kinda like you need to tell yourself (i don't feel afraid saying this to you because you sound like a good guy who will not take it too far): f*ck it, they can take me or leave me. Think about it? That's what she did with the burping and you're still trying to figure out how to go on the next date with her! Does this make sense?

Casting

At least with him (I have been with younger male virgins, it was not the same... I think there's something to the older sexual inexperienced ones ). He's the best lover I've ever had though... and I've been with some very "experienced" men heh.

Shoji

Lets watch Disney movies.

Moiety

Many thanks to everyone who posted in response to this. This was just the wake-up call I needed. Sometimes, as a woman, it is easy to let your emotions guide your actions and I really do think I've been mistaking my feelings of belonging. I have to keep this family friendly for both of us. I do not want to hurt my husband. I do not want to hurt Ross' family, but I do want to keep my job and the only way to do that is to make sure that we stay platonic. I would like to add that I do not feel like a horrible person for questioning all of this. I think if you are married and you have never thought about someone else, you are lying to yourself... no matter how great it is. Again, thanks to all who posted. Sometimes the truth can hurt so bad, but it's much better than having to later face the consequences.

Tamitha

One date is all they can spare before moving on to the next prospect. Wash and repeat. It's basically speed dating for a lot of folks.

Bentwood

He needs to keep trying full stop, and more frequently. Instead of trying a few times and saying it's not gonna work.

Brontosaurus

How can I go from here?

Malevolency

Why so little love for the beautiful chocolate-bait?

Rapping

Love my truck. I work allot and in need of a nice girl I'm very nice. and shy at firs.

Pressor

She may not even go, she may have been asked to work an evening shift. She may have no intention of going, he is just assuming she said yes, as that seems to be his style.

Zawisza

With this relationship definitely no track record of trust issues for a good 6 years so....... yeah. It'd be weird for me to all of a sudden transform into an insecure boyfriend

Qurti

hey..that looks like my car in the background

Infiniteness

Very cute. Her face could use some work, but her body is slammin

Masora

have to go check my garage..maybe she's waiting

Godsend

Well when he decided that she was the one for him and decided to let his guard down, boy she sure showed him didn't she?

Surface

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Lopiano

Of course this "sex rule" was invented by her for some other reasons, surely not the reasons the have told you. She is a primium high rank cheater and a liar. All what you had with her before the wedding was one bib lie. Why do i tell you that?

Skiff

Real cute.

Yashima

If it makes you feel better to do it this way, DO IT. Just do it sooner than later. Just be prepared for a nasty/sarcastic response.

Westcap

I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 and a half years. We're both 25. This summer she is spending two months away on the other side of the country for work -- she's been gone about 3 weeks now. We had been planning for me to go visit her for a weekend in the middle of her trip.

Sevenfold

dump this?? are you kidding? very nice

Demetria

I have had the experience you refer to sir, I was married for eight years.

Ruiners

if thats what she wears in the woods i wonder what she wears at the club? lol