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What would you tell your children if they were in an unhappy marriage? Would you encourage them to have a clandestine affair behind their spouses back? Is that something that would make you proud of them?

Drosera

Do what?

Styrene

possissiveness is a very very bad thing. It is not showing how much he cares about you.. its showing how little he trust you . A relationship without trust is doomed from the beginning. I went through 28 years of marriage with that controlling possivie jealousy, sooner or later you do reach your limitation, it just took me awhile. and the longer you stay in it the more miserable it becomes. im only speaking from experience.

Bick

Hi.im very down to earth and do my very best to enjoy everyday. I love being outdoors, spending time with friends and famil.

Simson

Don't necessarily have that philosphy but it is a difference.

Gloried

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Ticking

Dear HiFi Guy, I know all too well how difficult it is to walk away from someone who admits that they have feelings for you but just can't allow themselves to act on those feelings. It's a tough thing to hear. But, strange as it might seem at first, the fact of the matter is that it's not your problem. How can that be, you might ask, when because of this woman's decision you are denied the joy of having her in your life as your girlfriend? It's affecting you, yes. But it's not your problem to solve. Believe me, I know what I'm talking about -- you can check out my "soap opera finale" from a couple of weeks ago if you'd like to see specifically. Basically this woman seems to be too wishy-washy to take a stand, to actively pursue something she contends she'd like to have in her life -- in this case, a relationship with you. Why doesn't matter, because the only person who can change this is her. The fact that she's unable/unwilling to even discuss her reasons with you beyond glib, meaningless labels like "love is not enough" ought to tell you that she's not really interested in changing. She's content to stay in her little world of angst. There's no self-examination going on, no questioning of how she could get over her doubts. She has not actually asked you to help her, and that illustrates all the more that she's not really interested in changing. She's perfectly happy to have you stay stuck in orbit around her, she'll *allow* you to remain oriented toward her, and she'll even *encourage* you to remain so by admitting to you that she misses you and implying vaguely that maybe, someday ... In my book that's emotional exploitation. If someone knows what a great person you are and truly values you and your well-being, she will not subject you to her angst & melancholy when she knows that she's not going to do anything to move out of them. She's stuck in limbo, so you should be too? This is not how one shows another respect and consideration. If she's so helpless and lacking in self-awareness that she's not even aware of what she's doing to you, you won't be able to help her see the light. If she's so self-absorbed that the fact that she's taking advantage of your love for her doesn't bother her, you still won't be able to help her see the light. In fact, I very much doubt that you will be able to help her see the light under any circumstances. Say the two of you maintain a "friendship" -- would she be able to deal with you dating other women? If you got serious about someone would she be supportive and happy for your happiness, or would she try to sabotage your new relationship? For that matter, could you handle her dating other men? Getting serious with someone else? I don't think you really want to subject yourself to what she's offering. What would you get out of it? And ultimately, what will she get out of it -- besides your technical assistance -- if you allow her fears & doubts to define your relationship? Maybe the one meaningful gift you could give her would be to refuse to play her game, to refuse to validate her screwed-up approach to relationships & her emotions. If you loved her but she simply didn't feel the same would you try to convince her that she did? Believe it or not it amounts to the same thing. You shouldn't have to convince anyone to love you, or to "give in" to their love for you. When I told my ex that I'd had enough of his melodrama & angst, he grew defensive and bitter (although he projected his bitterness onto me). I've realized that he needed to distance himself from his feelings for me, but he only wanted to do so on his terms: which were him walking away from me (but not too far away), and me mournfully carrying the torch for him, waiting for him to come to his senses. Once I provided the distance on my terms -- dismissal and relative indifference -- he was angry. Which just shows all the more to me that he wasn't really concerned at all with how I felt, with how his behavior & words affected me. His expectations of me were completely unrealistic. He would not be happy to learn that I've got a new person in my life. He has demonstrated, unfortunately, that he's not fit to be my friend. It sounds to me like that's true of this woman. You've got to do what's right for your current well-being and future potential for happiness. She doesn't seem promising for those things.

Huss

Love that dress! Beautiful girl.

Voucher

I approached things well initially, but it quickly escalated, and her perception was that I was almost yelling at her. Mine is she was very uncooperative, expected since I did wake her up, but it bothered me that she was uncooperative because that was one of the issues.

Brasher

Give yourself more time to heal.

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True

Wow peach. I'm sorry. I just went back and looked at the pics and I never noticed that guy in the pic. I guess my mind only saw what it wanted to see :). As for the pics that you said we're too old I guess it's perception again. I know for a fact that she is closer to too young than too old but it is what it is.

Exaggeration

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Piaroa

So let me get this straight....you were lying on the bed and it sounded like he went for a condom out of his briefcase?

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Fidel

or someone was in the process of Photoshop maybe?

Debakey

I would follow through and separate from her and see where it goes from there. And, BE HONEST about it; don't feed her some self-deprecating line about being insecure. Tell her that you no longer trust her and that you need time and space away from her to sort things out in your head. Getting away from her will give you room to breath and think about how you want to proceed from there.

Lenzner

Back to your GF. You need to go out with your colleagues and make more friends. It's never good to depend too much on one person. But I find it amazing that anyone wants to marry if they're going to cheat.

Pand

I mean i do not really care about if he is not interested, he is just one guy, but his behaviour really makes me feel angry because it is stupid ...

Varicella

The man I fell in love with (and who subsequently broke my heart) was someone I met online. He didn't quit looking for women online even after we were exclusive. I actually ended up catching him on a date with one, and even while he was telling me that he loved me, his excuse was "I just wanted to see what she was like."

Beladen

It's your choice. You don't HAVE to do anything.

Gautama

nothing better than a barefoot cheerleader

Arletta

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Genesta

Changing certain things is easier said than done, tho; especially when you're dealing with social anxiety. Makes plenty of things difficult to deal with in general, to be honest.

Stunk

i dont know why your man is helping her. to me it seems like she didnt hurt him enough to cut her off.... but that may not be the case.