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Neider

The relationship has always been rocky.. but lately its been usually rocky. His "thing" is the Casino. I never thought much of it at first. We used to go and have a drink and what not. I know he has worked at Casinos in the past. He decided to take a job as Poker Dealer at one doing some days some night shifts. Then he said he was going to change his schedule to doing nights from about 6pm till anywhere between 4am-10am. He said he wanted to see how much money he can make, the potential. His goal as 10,000 in a month. He ended up doing it for two months. He said this is where the money comes in at the poker tables. (after 3am) He was working like 16 hour shifts, six days a week. Needless to say I became back burner. All the sudden it felt like I had a ghost bf. not that i minded him working BUT i felt drastic change suddenly and felt like a much less priority and felt neglected in all aspects. He didnt balance us between work. We barely talked, sex dropped down, he never visited me. And when he said he would he would flake almost everytime. SO naturally i got very resentful and suspicious. As our whole relationship did a 360. I felt bitter that he was choosing job and money over me and was hardly making 10% effort to fit me in. He complained I wasn't being supportive. And how can i complain if someone work's hard. But the thing i don't get is where is the money to show. He drives a piece of **** car and recently downgraded to 1 bedroom living.

Suttles

thank you skewlies

Pignier

With people I am interested in seeing again- I do a hug and let it linger, and they either pull away or turn it friendly. Some of them earlier were having a great time, and I think that it's my process. Like I really need to establish connection, or verbally and non verbally let them know they are special, first, or something similar, that I'm not.

Ginzburg

Also in: #41041 #4002

Justin

"She is the best! No doubt on that. A honest and great companion. A friend, a classy woman. But it is her heart that will surprise you. Please don't bargain with this woman. She deserves more than what she asks for. I truly miss her."

Yanjun

You must have had some "attraction" to them, even if on just one level, to at least want to go out with them.

Dhai

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Jeramie

The other day I asked her for one date, with no obligation for a second one, and no hard feelings from either side if it doesn't work out. In return she promised to treat it as a real 1st date with someone she's actually considering being with.

Walpole

How does that top stay on??? tftftf

Fsghost

Also, keep in mind, that when people say ok to being just friends, if they actually are interested in more, that doesn't just go away because they agreed to be just friends. The attraction is still there, maybe under the surface, but it's still there. And in some cases, a little hope is still there that you may change your mind when you get to know her better. It's very possible that she's wondering if you've changed your mind, and if the next time you see each other, you might gravitate toward her even more until you do actually want a relationship.