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I met claudia 6months ago; it was my first ever experience, but claudia was very smart and siple.. I remember her voice, it is still in my ears. She is cultured and respect other cultures. Claudia also deales with me as she knows me for along time. It is not every thing about Claudia, and wil try to see her again.. My best wishes Claudia.. Adel

Asphyxiant

It seems like you're focused on him but he's not focused on you. That gives him a little bit of power over you. With some people it makes them try harder to be noticed and can draw them in closer for attention-seeking. Maybe he's going for that consciously or subconsciously?

Spouses

well, then, how do I even begin to bring this up? I'm so nervous. Because what can he really say? He will stop? What will that do for me? I know if he stops it's not really going to cure the problem. Besides, I don't know if he will even stop. He will just password protect THAT computer and I'll be screwed. Ultimately, I should just break up then? What about six years of my life poured into this relationship down the drain? Would you guys mind waiting until I find out who these other girls are that he looked up? I can go through his computer at some point this weekend and write back. Because they weren't all disney channel girls..... UGH I'm making excuses.

Wok

Sounds like he really liked you, and was hoping you'd chase him, otherwise he would not have even been thinking about you, let alone send you such an obnoxious *rejection* text an entire week later....when you NEVER indicated you were interested in the first place!

Brett

I think many youth has the same problem as yours. when you are in this age span, you aren't very sure about own identity, so you seek out for others' validation. If you aren't sure about yourself, about who you are, you easily rely on others' opinion about you. If a person express he likes you, then you tend to do anything for him to keep that validation going on. It is not good. It puts you in a very vulnerable position, and continue doing this would make you an empty shell. you will find out when they offer compliments the same time they ask you for something you shouldn't or cannot offer.

Stromal

whenever i m back in lisbon i m seeing nicole.....she is just amazing...wonderful, funny friendly and with perfect service... she makes me feel so well... highly recommended....
Kisses to you Nicole!"

Yousuke

And ignore her.

Hoang

Then he left the city to go to a summer job. I kept writing to him and calling him and everything seemed great.

Dacie

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Arrieta

Put down the antidepressants and down a handful of virtual happy pills.

Lifetime

This girl should be in the movies. The camera just loves her.

Jeppson

I disagree...it probably does mean somethin' to him but you should wait to ask...

Thunderbearer

Plus, there is the family issue. You still want one. Many men your age already have one and just aren't interested in changing diapers again. They don't want to be older daddies. They've been there, done that, and now they are in another chapter of their lives where they can revert back to focusing on themselves and less so on starting a new family.

Costich

.....when is it too soon to say the "L" word? Have any girls out there been the first to say it? Was that a smart thing or not?

Chrstph

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Pend

me667: Yes. I read all the comments on each homepage (just like everyone else should do). I haven't gotten to your pics yet.

Hoeller

bobo great DB Was looking at your uploads got any super favs???

Stayton

Ok what I bolded above is where I think your insecurity and impatience got the best of you. You could have said the rest of what you said to her and been fine and still shown that you don't want to waste your time and are deserving of an answer. I don't want to drag things out any longer, presumes a bad ending. It's demanding and comes from a negative place and is not confident. The rest of what you said sounds like good communication that comes from a positive, caring place and is your best chance. It also sounds confident and implies that you are assessing the relationship without sounding overly emotional about it nor too invested. You can also do it by matching, as Oregon dude said, the time frame one takes to get back to you. Or match the actions. Or this one is a little game play-y but sometimes I'm not above advising that: when she said she has her independent life, you could have responded: yeah you are right we did kind move things a little fast and I totally get it; there are some things I've been neglecting too. It was just exciting and I got caught up in the moment. The reason that it's game play-y is that is obviously not how you are feeling when you are hearing this for the first time. However, it's really not when you are able to catch your breath, take a step back and realize that if she is dialing down, you want to dial it down too. She is not the only fish in the sea. I mean you said it yourself: that you did not exactly feel as good about her based on her saying/doing this, right? And reasonably, realistic you knows in some ways she is right about this. You will have other options. Operate from a place of abundance and certainty in yourself and your attractiveness. In some ways responding in kind, and specifically like this in this instance provides a reset. It's like a reset button. Basically you are matching her step for step with your/her pace. Now if this is inauthentic to you it's not going to work. But logical, confident you should be able to do this: provide she is holding your interest, no one else comes along and she is not unreasonable with her level of contact. So see why it's important to remain in the moment? Don't jump further ahead than what you are receiving. See when I read her sentence to you, it sounds good and honest. I see it as positive and you are just going too fast for her. Sure it's possible you are just one of several options to her but like you said before, it's open-ended. Think positive from that reply. Your actions and communication will reflect that you see it as such and you will have better results.

Centris

Yeah... i would say you should try working it out with your ex if the RJ was the only thing wrong with the relationship, to be honest. I know it's hard to get over something like this, but at least he didn't bang 20, 30, or 40 guys like my ex did. I think I would be able to be with my ex if she just slept with 1 other guy besides me. But this isn't about me, and I understand, and we all feel differently about stuff like this. So maybe you could potentially try talking to a professional about your feelings on the subject?

Eyewash

Damn that is some great ass!

Nettie

if she means half of the things that she said, then she will wait for you to come around, forever